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Episode 99: Your Willpower Won’t Help You Lose Weight

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What’s up, my beautiful peach? I’m excited for today’s episode, which is near and dear to my heart because it addresses a struggle I personally experienced in the past. Now, being on the other side, I’m eager to share my thoughts and feelings here. Today, we will discuss willpower and how it is not the answer to long-term weight loss and food freedom.

If you have ever felt a lack of trust in yourself due to past diet failures, or if you believe that having more willpower is the key to success, this episode is for you. Contrary to popular belief, I strongly believe that willpower alone will not help you lose weight. It is one of the most powerful statements that can change your perspective and lead to sustainable weight loss.

In a recent conversation within my Beautiful Peach Mastermind, one of my clients shared a profound realization. She said, “I would have loved to hear that my struggles were not due to a lack of willpower. I just assumed it was because I was eating too much and not working out enough. Now, I am eating more, working out less, and seeing sustainable changes. I am finally free.” This statement highlights the importance of understanding that willpower is not the solution.

True transformation requires a holistic approach, addressing the physical, emotional, and mental aspects of our lives. We cannot feel good in our bodies if our minds are not aligned, and vice versa. Many people believe that having willpower is enough to stick to a diet and find happiness. However, this mindset is not healthy mentally. It is not willpower that is the problem, but rather the fact that certain approaches do not fit into our lifestyles.

You can have all the willpower in the world and be ready to change, but if a program does not align with your life, it will not work in the long run. Eventually, you will reach a breaking point where what you are doing stops working or makes you incredibly unhappy. Instead of focusing on willpower, it is crucial to have the right tools, understanding how your body and metabolism work, and creating a lifestyle that fits your needs.

I want you to know that your feelings are valid, and it’s okay to have struggled in the past. You are not failing, and you can trust yourself. By embracing a new approach and gaining the right education, you can succeed in reaching your weight loss goals without the need for constant dieting or restrictive eating.

Take some time for self-reflection and journaling. Write down all the diets you have tried in the past and how they made you feel. Reflect on when you started your first diet and how long you have been on this journey. Consider the negative effects of dieting on your mental well-being and how it has impacted your life. Then, envision the positive changes you can make today and how they will improve your overall well-being.

Remember, change may require effort, but it is worth it. Embrace the journey and focus on sustainable, maintainable, educational, and enjoyable approaches to food and wellness. You don’t have to do it alone. Reach out for support and guidance if needed.

You are capable, worthy, and deserving of a healthy and fulfilling life. Don’t forget it. Sending you lots of love and positivity. See you in the next episode, my beautiful peach!

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